How to draw luck in your life? Positive psychology argues that luck, perhaps, to win over to its side. Often a person asks himself how to make it more fortunate. Let's see what people understand by luck? And what is a lucky chance - a reality or a dream? Luck is a positive event perceived by an individual that results from an unpredictable, probabilistic process or a combination of circumstances in life. Synonyms of luck are luck, chance, partly happiness. Luck is both an object of lust, as well as an object of prejudice, everyone dreams about it, many want each other, but psychologists warn and note that it is necessary to be ready for luck. It is believed that there are two types of lucky people: to whom the "manna of heaven" fell (fateful meeting, lottery winnings, inexplicable cure); And those who "collect" favorable coincidences of circumstances and consider their birth under a lucky star. Psychologist Philip Gabiye believes that these statements need additions, otherwise people will remain within the framework of fatalism and magic. Indeed, random luck happens, but there is another kind of luck that can be brought closer and cultivated. This kind of luck is available to all.
For example, a psychologist from the BritishHertfordshire University Richard Wiseman, studying hundreds of lucky people, found that there are two types of luck: psychological, emerging after a volitional decision and formulating a consciously personal position and passive, for example, winnings in lotteries.
Its first discovery is that the success of the first species is able to resume, so it is also called a long-term success.
Both types of luck have five components:
- Timely meeting with the right person;
- Key information that turned out just in time;
- openness to everything new and the acquisition of positive experience;
- a fateful event and an unexpected request that violates the usual course of life.
How to attract good luck - advice of psychologists
For constant success it is necessary to prepare the soil in which the grains of favorable opportunities will develop and strengthen. This is realistic if you learn the following settings.
How to attract good luck and luck? Installation is one. Set yourself a task and focus on achieving it. What does it mean? Determine in their desires, feel, in which direction there is a desire to develop their lives and what to put in it. A person needs to understand what gives him a sense of inner blossoming and what can become the driving force of all life.
Canadian psychologist Albert Bandura, referring to the concept
, Noted that human nature is guided in part by the choice of norms and personal values that it itself makes. Mechanisms of what
Sees its value as a person, determinePartly the influence of direction and its social development. So, if there is no clear intention (the direction of consciousness and thinking), then there is no lasting good luck either. Under a positive intention, they understand vital desires and, in what direction, to move in life. For this, a person should understand himself, what he wants, what he needs. These questions lie at the heart of the path to success.
Further, their expectations are to be specified andMake your intentions outline: create a diary and write down your desires, get the necessary education or knowledge, meet those people whose desires have similar views.
Installation of two says to open up to the world. What does it mean? It means being ready to internally notice the new and perceive as much as possible what is happening around. This is a general attitude to constant wakefulness and attentiveness, allowing you to see the prospects for a new acquaintance, to catch interesting information and to direct energy in a certain direction. Thus, a person repeatedly raises his chances of attracting luck, regardless of whether he considers himself involved in the emergence of these opportunities or not.
When an individual periodically pauses, it allows you to work your intuition and is freed from the power of opponents of luck (automatic thinking and routine).
Installation of three notes to draw luck inIt's necessary to use your own failures for good, after all the most successful people are not spared from unexpected troubles and blows of fate, but they can effectively and with long-term result work through their failures.
Successful people do not surrender to the will of anger, grief, sorrow, they seek in themselves the causes of failure, give themselves the right assessment and, given the circumstances, their failure is subjected to recycling.
Initially, they separate the inevitable and accidental fromFor which they are, albeit partially, responsible. Also they can unbelievably notice in the heart of their failure the embryos of luck, and in fact it could be even worse. Finally, they are asked such a significant question: what can I learn from this situation for myself? Or, under what conditions and how can I transform it for myself into something positive? Or how should I proceed to wrap up trouble in my favor? What did this event teach me? How can I use this situation to get new information, meet new people, open new worlds?
The last stage of processing troubleBecomes "restarting" the chances of opportunities in order to be able to open new doors and find other ways. This means, for example, to renew relations with old acquaintances, to accept and send invitations, to do new things, to gather information on an exciting topic. Each person personally has to find his own way to let a fresh wind into his world and add new components to attracting luck, no matter how they are called: key information, a new world, a timely meeting, an unexpected request.
Installation of four reads: Become a talisman for others. The more people with whom you are familiar, the larger the network of personal contacts, the higher the likelihood that an individual will make a fortunate occurrence, and he will draw luck into his life.
Lucky individuals expect that their relationship withOther people will be fruitful. This works in the event that when entering into a relationship, a person shows attention, generosity to another and renders services free of charge, otherwise all acquaintances boil down to a selfish and self-serving replenishment of the contact list. The basis for luck will not be laid, if there is no energy of giving oneself. This means that a person himself must become a talisman for other people and bring them luck. To bring luck to other people, it's enough to give them time and attention, to be ready to listen to them, to timely report important information, to open up to them a new field of opportunity, to be near during failures, to help turn this failure to changes in the best.
Showing solidarity and sympathy, a person not only creates a reserve of future successes, but also fills his life with depth and meaning.